Self-love is one of the most important forms of love and sometimes we forget to focus on it. There are so many signs that the universe gives us, but we also get signs that come from ourselves.
The People Around You
You know you must focus on self-love when you realise that the people around you are all positive and willing to support you. It is your body telling you that you have come to a stage in your life where toxic people no longer serve you in any way and you respect yourself enough to let them go. Always listen to what your body is telling you, as it knows you better than you think.
You Speak Your Mind
If you find yourself speaking your mind more, you are ready to love yourself like never before! Often, we quieten down so others don't ask to hear our opinion on things. This is because we don't believe what we are saying is worth it. However, if you naturally find yourself telling people your opinion, you are accepting who you are and showing others you care what you have to say.
On the flip side, if you are constantly wanting attention from other people and feeling insecure, this is a negative sign you must love yourself more. Most of the time we crave attention from others because we aren't getting what we want from the people closest to us. You must first ask, what are you doing to give attention to yourself? Focus on you and trust that you don't need validation from everyone else.
By Pia Louisa